There is a post on a forum I am on at the moment about condescend to young mums, I am going to be a young mum but I got lucky. I planned to be a young mum, and I do get upset when people judge me, thinking that my pregnancy is an accident. I don't often get too much attention due to my wedding ring and the fact I look older than I am.
When it happens I tend to ignore it, but I do get trouble from some women at the hospital, staff usually.